I agree, Monique. I've never expected a free repair, other than for something that was defective. Now having said that, we have had a lot of Patagonia gear both repaired and replaced at no cost, even when we have asked them to contact us to discuss an estimate as it's been pretty old gear. Earlier in the thread I mentioned Rainy Pass. We have used them to primarily alter a lot of garments. Most often shorten the legs on ski pants. They do a lot of work for Arcteryx and Marmot, and we have sent them a lot of Spyder stuff, too. They do a great job. Factory finish, and nothing is to complicated. They are not inexpensive, and that doesn't bother us as we keep clothing for a long time and value a job well done. Patagonia's charge to alter, and their fees, IMO just can't be beat. Normally about $50 to shorten pants.....moving panels to have articulated knees in the right place, etc.
Scuffing and wear and tear that's bad enough to require professional work {which would mean a sewing machine and the materials in our case} is something that I'd expect to pay for.
I've been a REI member for 35+ years, and I can't recall returning anything, other than a pair of Keen shoes which had the soles falling of in weeks. Clear defect, replaced on the spot. I've also never bought any REI branded ski clothing, so I can't offer any insight there.