@Keith H, thanks for getting back to us with that information.
Not surprisingly, I'd rate your three choices the same way that Phil does: Vantage, Enforcer, Brahma.
I own the Enforcer, I have owned the Brahma on the previous two generations {do not any more}, and have all of one half day on the latest....which is a much more user friendly ski. It still has a relatively narrow sweet spot. And it still skis "best" with a good amount of speed.
I may have a different view of both the Enforcer 100 and 93 than some, I guess. Having logged many days on them, and on the flip core Blizz line, I find the Enforcer to be a lot for playful. It may be the layup, the tail, the tip taper, and the smaller radius. I find them a lot easier to ski slow, to smear and pivot as needed. They still ski form snow pretty well, but for me, would not be my first choice on Eastern hard snow. You need to get the skis out form underneath you, ski dynamically, get them well up on edge.....and pressure them. aka, "work" the ski.
Having skied the Vantage once, that ski seems to really "do it all" darn well. I would wager that you would like it more at a variety of speeds. You can make all sorts of turn shapes, and depending on how advanced your skiing is, you don't need to always be right on it. I feels to me like it will reward you if you ski it dynamically, and on the front of the boot, but I don't think it will punish you. Also did quite well in a lot of varied stuff for me. I think it could be a really good ski for you.
One mentioned that I'm not sure would be a good choice is the Monster88. That's my ski in that size, but I tend to is in fast, in big turns, and in older "leftover" eastern snow. Not real fresh, unless is basically crudded up, and not real hard. I prefer a more narrow ski, a Head i.speed for that, and actually ski it about 85% of the time. The Monster88 is being redesigned for this season, and is evidently more user friendly to appeal to a wider range of skiers. The new one might "work." Mine likes to be skied fast, with precision and power, and it is a very damp, solid ski. It feels glued to the snow. I love it. But "playful", no. Not sure if it would be my choice for skiing with the kids and friends. I ski it in a 184cm, and it "skis longer." Again, just one guy's opinion.
Familiar with everywhere that you ski, BTW. If you spent most of your time at Holiday Valley, and the VT trips were a once or twice a season thing, I might steer you narrower, towards more of a carver. Maybe one of the Head Suprshapes.....a Rally, maybe. But it sounds like you're set on a "all mountain" ski. Which is absolutely fine as there are so many good ones.
Demo a couple, if you can!