Crank,
I am interested in getting into skinning myself. What I discovered is Bolton Valley in VT, just south of Burlington, is the back country capitol of Northern Vt. They have a nice medium sized downhill area and a huge cross country/back country network. They rent the AT gear and also offer two classes in AT skiing. One is an intro class for newbies (just what you are looking for for your SO) and the other is a open to the public guided (or organized tour) the next day. The ski area has rooms to rent (although not extensive) and makes a nice get away for the weekend. I waited too long last season to do it, but I plan to give it a try next year. I cross country and downhill, have my own gear, and will either buy or rent the AT gear. I visited Bolton Valley one day l late in the season and liked what I saw. Go to their website and you will find the info on what they offer.