We moved from a very crowded Fairfield county Connecticut to a pretty rural NW CT area. We're on the other side of Litchfield County, the non wealthy, less fancy side bordering western mass. We're 7 miles from the mass border and we border Colebrook and caanan. Our phrase is you can't get there from here. Anywhere we go is 45 minutes to an hour. We've grocery stores 20ish minutes away. We have breweries and local ski areas closer than anything else. I never, ever complain about not being close to stuff. I'm pissed at myself at didn't move here years ago. I love it here at much in no longer in a hurry to move full time to southern Vermont. We don't take 91 anymore to get to VT. It's all been roads.
We are tickled pink to be where we are. It's a tradeoff and not for everyone but we're happy. We'll never complain about anything being "inconvenient"